I recently got an email from my grad school requesting some information for an internal “facebook” that will be passed out to faculty, staff, and other students. It asked for all the basic, easy stuff — undergraduate university, undergraduate major, favorite food — and then it hit me with a doozie: it asked for my hobbies. Uhhh…
I mean, who has hobbies anymore? In a perfect world, I’d be able to write “calligraphy, birdwatching, knitting, table tennis, and volunteering with refugees from Kazakhstan.” But folks, it ain’t a perfect world. If I were to be honest, I’d list “lounging, blogging, watching Jon & Kate Plus 8, drinking outdoors, eating, hanging out with friends, and, uhh, sleeping?” among my hobbies. Those don’t cut it, either. I turned to my sister for advice:
Maddy: Well, you like sitting.
Mallory: Maddy, I KNOW, but that doesn’t count. What about baseball games? I like baseball games! I’m watching one right now!
Maddy: You only like baseball games when you are eating a hot dog and drinking a beer and sitting in the Rockpile, where you don’t even have to watch the game.
Mallory: Touche. Ummmm…I’ve been, uh, running a lot lately…
Maddy: “A lot” might imply that you run marathons. You occasionally run for 20 minutes, and you hate every second of it.
Mallory: Concerts! I like going to concerts!
Maddy: [Rolls eyes.]
You see my dilemma. I settled on the following list of hobbies: reading (I really do like that! It’s generic, but whatever, beggars can’t be choosers); writing (I blog, and email my friends a lot); biking (well, see, I biked tons last summer and I think that if I put air in the tires, I’d actually use my bike a lot!); swimming (I used to be a swimmer in high school; now I enjoy sunbathing); and spending time with my friends (read: eating and drinking. A lot).
Sigh. Maybe my grandma can teach me to needlepoint.
[Posted by Mallory]
One response to “who has hobbies these days, anyway?!”
i work full time, give horsemanship lessons in the evening, but i like to (and do)crochet, i get together twice a month with friends and we make cards, and other projects. we all work full time, some of two and three jobs (horses really like to eat), but we always make time for things we enjoy for ourselves. that have nothing to do with kids, work or husbands.